Plus Size, Extra Sexy: My 7 Favorite Curve-Loving Lingerie Picks

Let’s be honest: for the longest time, lingerie felt like a private club where only a very specific body type got the VIP pass. Let me tell you something I wish someone had told me years ago: sexy isn’t a size, it’s a state of mind. And the moment you start wearing lingerie that actually embraces your curves instead of hiding them? Total game-changer.I saw this firsthand with my best friend, Eva.

She’s a confident, bold, plus-size woman — and watching her step into her power through lingerie was inspiring. When she found her first real bodysuit, something clicked. I remember the text she sent: “I feel like a goddess — and this thing actually fits.” It was a turning point, not just in her wardrobe, but in how she carried herself. And honestly? It made me rethink everything. I thought I knew about confidence and intimacy.So if you’ve ever thought, “Maybe lingerie just isn’t for me,” I’m here — with Eva’s full blessing — to tell you: it absolutely is. And you deserve the kind of pieces that don’t just fit — they love you back. Here’s what we’ve discovered (through many late-night shopping sessions and even more joyful try-ons) about what every curvy babe should have in her drawer.

It starts with the fit — not the fantasy

Forget the size tag for a second. You could wear the sexiest lace halter in the world, but if the band cuts into your back or the cups collapse? The mood is gone. Eva always starts with a reliable size guide — not to shrink into a garment, but to choose one that flows with her body. Sometimes that means sizing up or choosing styles with more stretch, and there’s no shame in that. Comfort = confidence, and confidence is always hot.

Bodysuits: her ride-or-die

I never understood the hype until I saw her in one; soft mesh, adjustable straps, a little stretch in all the right places. She said it felt like being wrapped in a sexy hug. Now she wears bodysuits under a blazer for brunch or with nothing else at all for the bedroom. It’s versatility with a wink, and she glows in it.

Plus size lingerie that actually gets it

There’s a quiet revolution happening in the world of plus size lingerie. Brands are starting to understand that we want daring cut-outs, peekaboo lace, and luxurious satins in extended sizing. SIN&LACE is one of our favorites because they don’t water it down. Their plus size lingerie feels bold, inclusive, and sexy — and you can tell it’s been made with intention. Whether it’s a harness bra, a babydoll, or a strappy leather set, these pieces say “you deserve this” loud and clear. Eva swears by their garter sets and I can confirm: she looks amazing.

Confidence in every stitch

I used to think garters were intimidating — all those straps and snaps. But the first time Eva wore one, I watched her strut across the room with a little more sway in her hips. That wasn’t about seduction — it was self-celebration. That’s what the right lingerie does. It helps you see yourself differently. She’s now addicted to bold details: satin harnesses, sheer mesh robes, and high-waisted panties that hug instead of squeeze. These aren’t just garments — they’re little love letters to herself.

Lingerie isn’t a reward — it’s a right

If no one’s told you this yet: you don’t need to lose weight, tone up, or “fix” anything to wear beautiful lingerie. You are enough. Your curves are art. And the pieces you choose should feel like a celebration — not a compromise. So light a candle, put on that mesh teddy, and dance around your bedroom. Do it for you. You don’t need a partner to feel powerful. You just need a set that makes you feel seen, held, and a little bit dangerous. If you're still unsure where to start, take a peek at the Sexy Sets Collection. Whether you whisper confidence or scream it, there’s something waiting for you.

With love (and lace),
Someone who’s been inspired